general | March 30, 2026

Tricks To Get A Guy To Approach You

If you're looking to draw men toward you, it's also important for you to make yourself totally approachable and welcoming. And that means putting away your phone and putting an end to distractions in general. After all, a guy isn't interested in approaching a woman who's staring down at her phone, as she appears totally disinterested in what's happening around her — and he believes she'll likely be disinterested in him as well.

Along these lines, research in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships has shown that the simple act of having a cell phone around you can negatively impact the quality of your conversations with others, as its mere presence can be enough to draw some of your focus and attention away from the person with whom you're speaking.

With this in mind, you should commit to being fully present and choose to present yourself as someone who's totally open and available to the men around you, as guys will feed off of this kind of positive energy and want to approach you. In a word, when you decide to be present in the moment, men will be highly interested in sharing those moments with you.